I found out about my cancer diagnosis on May 24th, which is exactly 100 days ago. I could commemorate this day by ticking off the number of medical appointments (19) and number of surgeries (3) but I choose to spend this day reflecting on the comment my daughter made when we came home just now.

“Mom, thanks so much. That was the best birthday party I’ve had in my whole life.”

Sniff.

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So my mom has been dying to come up with a name to contribute to the name game. Earlier today she told me that she didn’t think she could think of something because because she “loved me too much” and didn’t want to make light of my cancer.

Oh how the love has faded because, drum roll please…, she has contributed:

Liv and Let Live

My dad, not to be left out and offering a mechanical interpretation:

Built and Re-Built

Both of those ideas made me laugh aloud after a very hard day. So I guess they love me a lot after all.

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Okay, so my cousin, Beth got me thinking about coming up with names for both righty and lefty. They are a set of a kind. So here goes, my stream of consciousness. As I did yesterday, I will add more as inspiration arises:

Boob and Boo Boo
Scooby and Scrappy
Lefty and Lucy (inspired by John’s suggestion “Righty Tighty and Lefty Loose-y”, which is backwards, unfortunately)
Benjamin and Button
Mammy and Mummy
Party and Pooped
Ta-da! and To-do
Zan and Jayna (The Wonder Twins, suggestion thanks to Lisa)
Waggy and Baggy
Jiggly and Scraggly
Lennie and Squiggy
Herman and Pee Wee
Judy and Punched
Hit and Miss
Denver and Phoenix (Okay, a little obscure but think about it and then groan.)
Teton and Won Ton
Ham Bow and Big Ow
Yin and Yang
Mickey and Mini (spelling intentional and I hear you all groaning.)
Bonnie and Clyde
Cupid and Psyche
Ernie and Bert (Okay, this one makes no sense but made me smile so I’m keeping it.)
Lilo and Stitched
Oscar and Felix
Simba and Scar
Wow and Ow

For some reason, I am finding a need to refer to the right side of my chest as something other than “surgical site.” It’s going to be several weeks before I start the temporary inflation process with the tissue expander so a name would be handy. And yes, I could stick with “righty” but that implies some kind of symmetry with “lefty”.  A few ideas of various levels of quality:

The Tissue Formerly Known as Righty
Breast-to-Be (I kind of like this one. Maybe a friend will throw me a shower before surgery. Yay, presents!)
Vegetarian Sweater Meat
Ugly Duckling (Some day it will turn into a bee-you-ti-ful swan.)
Breasterpillar (Some day it will turn into a bee-you-ti-ful breasterfly.)
Puppy Pupa (continuing with the metamorphosis theme)
Empty Jug
Sad Sack (waah!)
Berefticle (waah!)
Scarla
Storage Chest
Bosom in Waiting
Breast, in Space Saver Mode
Unleavened Breast
Late Bloomer
Bosom’s Buddy
Fixer Upper
Do-Over
The Start of Something Big
Under the Shoulder Boulder Holder

My friend, Karen requested the recipe for the stew I made yesterday. I adapted the recipe from Eating Well magazine so it is Ethiopian-ish. They used chicken thighs (2 1/2 pounds), no cabbage, and cooked it in a crock pot (7-8 hours on low) after cooking the onions, garlic, and ginger on the stove top. They did not brown the meat but I think it would be better that way. I cooked mine in a 5 quart braising pot, an Emile Henry porcelain pot I bought myself with Christmas money. A Crueset enameled iron pot or Dutch oven would also be fine. I also used beef instead of chicken thighs because I don’t like chicken thighs and white meat would dry out. I think it would be excellent with lamb.

Ingredients

1 tablespoon butter + 2 teaspoons oil
2 pounds boneless chuck roast, cut into stew sized pieces
4 cups chopped onion
5 cloves garlic, chopped or crushed
5 tablespoons berbere spice (I don’t know if it is the best, but I use this one. I just use the whole packet.)
1 1/2 cups red lentils
1 tablespoon finely minced fresh ginger (If you have one of those Asian rasp style graters, that works well.)
1 head cabbage, cut into large chunks
28 ounce can of diced or crushed tomatoes with their juice
1/2 cup dry red wine
2 cups water, chicken, or beef broth

1. Heat butter and oil in the braising pot over medium heat (I use less than the recipe calls for to cook the onions and reserve a little for later to sear the meat). Cook onions until soft, translucent, and starting to brown, 10-20 minutes. Add garlic and ginger and cook about 2 minutes until fragrant. Add berbere spices and cook another few minutes until fragrant. Remove onion mixture from pot and set aside.
2. Raise heat to medium high, add a little oil, and brown beef in 1-3 batches. When completed pour in 1/2 cup wine and deglaze the bottom of the pan by stirring up the delicious burned bits from the bottom.
3. Remove pot from heat. Add onions and beef into the pot. Then add the rest of the ingredients in the following order, lentils, cabbage, tomatoes with juice, and water/broth.
4. Cover and cook in oven at 325 degrees for 2 1/2-3 hours. Stir before serving and season to taste.

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